About Me: My Journey through Weight Loss & Wellness

Tuesday, June 20, 2017
I cannot tell you how many times I tried to make a video for this post today. Between my voice being hoarse and coughing (recovering from the flu), my phone cutting me off because I didn't have enough memory for a 10 minute long video (haha!) and my kids walking in the room talking- I finally decided the video was a no-go and to share my heart on here.

I am a wife to a network engineer (computer nerd!) and a stay at home, homeschooling mom  to 8 children. Nutrition coach, weight lifter, runner, and occasional crossfitter. My husband and I have planted our roots in a tiny Carolina town but have the love of cities deep in our hearts (we love visiting cities!)

My passion and desire is to help women change their lives from the inside out- and it began with my own journey of losing 110 pounds naturally.  After five pregnancies and two adoptions within a seven year span, I found myself 80 pounds heavier and never able to lose enough of that weight before welcoming a new child! I set out to pursue a healthier me after discovering that I had high grade pre cancerous cells that had to be removed after my last pregnancy. This was my wake up call, I was only 25/26 and a slight cell grade below stage 1 cancer. I knew that it wasn't just about the weight that had to change, but my relationship with food and what I was putting into my body had to change if I was going make a lasting difference in my life.

(circa 2009, love that hair flip too, bahaha!)

From there I began reading and researching. Books, articles, blogs, studies all helped me make the decision that I was going to do this by eating real foods and exercising. No shakes, shots, pills, drops, wraps or crash dieting. I began running and doing at-home workouts with hand weights. I ran a few races and joined my local crossfit box. There I learned so much more about my body and proper nutrition to fuel your workouts than I knew existed.  I love to challenge myself and push my limits, so I am always in search of new ways to train and new sports to pursue. After a year of crossfit I dedicated myself more to running and this spring I completed a 31 mile ultra marathon. It is amazing what our bodies can do! There have absolutely been days that I truly want to give in, to sign up for a 2-shake-a-day program or to run to the nearest clinic for phentermine and b12 shots. Looking back on those days and those options, it is so empowering to know that I did this all the right way, the wasting way and changed my entire life.

My journey is long but shows that patience pays off. My health and my weight effected so much of my life that I never realized. I was insecure and self conscious and that spilled over into my marriage, my parenting and my friendships. I am a completely different person than I was just 3 years ago in greater ways than just being leaner. 
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Healthful pursuits came alive in the very start. The more I learned, the more I wanted to get this information out to everyone. The desire for women to know more about their health and their bodies was embedded in me as I was journeying through it myself. When I did share bits and pieces- emails and messages would flood my inbox from women feeling defeated and confused, unsure of what to do and where to begin to regain their health and bodies back.  So I began to study for my fitness nutrition certificate and began taking on women to coach and help meet their goals. I am not a coach that is going to put you on a diet of eating nothing just to see numbers on the scale drop- but give you the tools, the information and the motivation you need to regain total body health.  I have been there, and some days I am there- I am not free from struggles and poor eating habits but have learned that this is truly a journey and a lifestyle.

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Snacking: is it worth it?

Sunday, June 11, 2017
I want to chat a little about something that is a problem area for me personally, and something that I have also seen a little bit of in other's logs and food pictures: snacking!

Let me start by saying that there is nothing wrong with having a snack. There is not even anything wrong with "snacking" as long as you are tracking how much you are having. This is an example of me on a bad day, total calorie allowance of 1675.

Breakfast: 2 eggs, toast, coffee = 315 calories

+ the handful of life cereal I snagged while pouring my kids = 400 calories. 

Snack 1: Protein shake, banana: 260 calories

+ 10 pretzels, again, serving my kids = 325 calories 

Lunch: Tuna, mayo, relish, tomatoes, wheat wrap, string cheese = 350 calories

Snack 2: Apple, 1tbsp of PB =195

+ one tablespoon? Yea right- i know I can't handle myself with PB, add another TBS. = 290

**it's right before dinner time. everyone is coming in from swimming and playing and they all want ice cream. I can't have any because I chose to have 295 calories in a handful of life cereal, a few pretzels and 1tbs of peanut butter. None of which filled me up- it was just habit. For 295 calories I could have enjoyed AN ENTIRE PINT of Halo Top Ice Cream with my kids 0R a skinny cow ice cream OR a cup of regular ice cream.** 

Dinner: Mexican Chicken (and all the toppings) = 300 calories


Daily total: 1,665

This was actually the perfect timing to do this evaluation on myself! It doesn't have to be ice cream, it could have been anything. A change of dinner plans leaving everyone going out for dinner, I would have had much more calories to use out had a I not snacked  them away.

Again, it's not that snacking is bad, if that is how you want to spend your calories that is totally fine! For me, it's a struggle area because it's habit for me and NOT the way I want to spend mine. I would much rather have a pint of ice cream over a few pretzels and some life cereal.  Next time you are tempted to take a handful of goldfish, think first about your day and whether or not those snacking calories will be worth it!




Summer Challenge Group

Friday, June 2, 2017






This year has FLOWN by! We are now just 19 days away from the start of the Summer Challenge Group which beings on the first day of summer, June 21st! Some people have the mindset that there is no point in starting in the middle of summer- their opportunity to lose their extra weight for summer is gone. That's completely untrue! If you put in hard work and determination, there is no reason why you can not be down 8 or more pounds in just the first month, and even more by the time school starts back in mid August. Imagine if you started now, what progress you will have made by the time holiday season begins and you are shopping for family gatherings and Christmas card photos.

With that said, my groups are not eat very little and lose a ton of weight in a few weeks.  There is no fad or quick fix that I support- instead I focus your plan around eating a healthy amount of food based on your body, lifestyle and activity level. Erasing the un healthy mindsets of "less is more" and debunking common diet myths (like: carbs are bad when trying to lose weight). A true lifestyle change that may not yield the extreme results like some of the low calorie and supplement programs out there, instead you will learn how to get to a healthy weight by eating all kinds of foods (no strict food lists!).

This group will run for 10 weeks, June 21st to August 30th. It includes a personalized plan for you to follow, an online group setting for encouragement/tips/discussion, three group challenges to participate in with prizes like my favorite water bottle, workout tanks, rx bars, etc. A weekly discussion topic, accountability for what you eat daily, support and your questions answered.  This group is also special because I am adding a 2nd coach (who is also Crossfit level 1 certified) to help me moderate the online group, encourage and answer questions. You will have access to two sources throughout the day for any of your questions and needs! The cost is $85 for 10 weeks (nothing else is required to be purchased except your regular groceries!). This equals to $8.50 a week.

In my previous 10 week challenge groups participants lost anywhere from 7-20 pounds and I am a firm believer that what you put into it, you will get out of it! I am not a doctor or certified nutritionist/dietician. I am a Mom helping other women meet their goals using what I have studied, learned, and experienced over the past three years losing 110lbs and over 10 previous years living obese with disordered eating habits. Ashley is a Mom who has lived with anorexia then obesity and has lost 61 pounds in the past few years using the same methods we promote to others. She received her level 1 crossfit certification in early Spring 2017.
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